As a Bhutanese girl who’s deeply in love with my country, let me take you on a journey into the heart of Bhutanese hospitality. Bhutan, the land of Thunder Dragon, known for its untouched natural beauty, peaceful monasteries and vibrant festivals. But beyond the stunning landscapes and spiritual attraction, what makes Bhutan special is the warmth of its people. One of the best ways to experience this warmth is by staying in local homestays. Let me share with you why this is such an unforgettable experience.
Staying in a Bhutanese homestay as a tourist isn’t about finding a place to rest; it’s about living like we do, if one for a few days. Most homestays, often run by families, are steeped in tradition. You will see homes with intricately painted walls, wooden floors, and altars dedicated to Buddhist deities – a true reflection of our heritage.
What makes these homestays truly special is the personal connection. From the moment you arrive, you’ll feel like part of the family. Your hosts will welcome you with open hearts, eager to share stories about your way of life, tradition, and even the history of their village. It's a deeply personal experience that goes beyond what any hotel can offer.
Staying in a homestay means you’re not just visiting Bhutan; you’re living it. You’ll join in daily activities like cooking, farming, or even attending local ceremonies. Sharing meals with the family is a highlight—imagine enjoying homemade dishes like ema datshi (our famous chili and cheese), red rice, and butter tea, prepared with so much love.
Many homestays are in peaceful villages away from the towns. Here, you’ll see the heart of Bhutan’s agrarian lifestyle. Whether it’s watching farmers tend their fields or trying your hand at weaving or archery, you’ll feel connected to the rhythm of our everyday lives.
When you choose a homestay, you’re helping Bhutanese families directly. This kind of sustainable tourism allows us to preserve our traditions while benefiting the community. It’s a beautiful exchange where you gain memories, and we keep our culture alive.
Homestays are full of surprises. Your hosts might show you secret spots in the village, teach you to make butter lamps, or even guide you through brewing ara (our local alcohol). These moments create bonds and memories that last forever.
Meals in our homestays are a treat! Families use fresh, locally sourced ingredients—often from their own farms—to cook meals filled with flavor and love. And don’t be shy if they insist on second helpings; it’s our way of making sure you feel truly cared for.
While we might not offer the luxuries of big hotels, our homes are cozy and full of character. You’ll sleep in rooms adorned with colorful textiles, sometimes on traditional bedding. It’s all part of the charm of experiencing life as we live it.
We Bhutanese are known for our humility and kindness. Your hosts will treat you like family, offering butter tea, chatting about their day, or explaining family rituals. This warmth is something I’m incredibly proud of as a Bhutanese.
From milking cows at dawn to learning how to make traditional dishes, you’ll be part of our daily life. It’s a chance to truly connect and understand our culture in a way that’s hard to put into words.
Be Respectful: Our culture values respect for traditions and elders. Simple acts, like removing your shoes before entering or showing reverence at family altars, mean a lot.
Embrace the Simplicity: Homestays are about living authentically. The simplicity might surprise you, but it’s also what makes the experience so special.
Learn a Few Words: A cheerful "Kuzuzangpo" (hello) or "Kadrinchey" (thank you) will instantly make you feel closer to us.
Say Yes to New Experiences: Whether it’s tasting a dish you’ve never heard of or trying to master a traditional craft, go for it! You’ll leave with stories to share.
As someone who grew up in Bhutan, I’ve seen firsthand how our homestays bridge the gap between visitors and locals. It’s more than just tourism; it’s about sharing our way of life and forming connections that transcend borders. When you stay with us, you’re not just a guest—you become a part of our story.
So, if you’re planning to visit Bhutan, I hope you’ll consider staying in a homestay. It’s an experience that will leave you with a deeper appreciation of our culture, our people, and the beauty of living simply yet meaningfully. And who knows, you might leave with not just memories, but a new family in the Land of the Thunder Dragon.
